Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Haiku

while i was rummaging through my old notebooks looking for some work-related information, i came across something which i scribbled last year... penned down in between some old and tattered pages of an almost forgotten notebook which i thought i had lost it and i never stopped blaming myself for losing it.

it was a lame attempt at writing a haiku... and die hard traditional haiku fans will gladly burn me at the stake for willfully ignoring the rules of writing a haiku. oh what the hell... i mean it anyway. but i'm so glad to have found it again.

and hence, i'm posting this for posterity:

12-14052006

vascillating mind
wrist watch beckons
time at standstill

journey between hills
the eyes closed
when will it be over

same receptionist smiled
her mischievious thoughts
key card to room 914

cold beer in alexis
and the sky poured
smoking and waiting

came thru the door
the smile again
enveloped in an embrace

rivers gushing wild
oceans forming wide
who's to stop them?

between the bedsheet
and the pillows
his murmurs seeped into the night

hazy petrol filled day
never beyond the hills
it shall remain here

to depart day after
the face must be brave
for the night

the night dies out
the key to morning
must be lost but it did not

silence marked
the departure
a kiss and embrace dominates

back home
the spot next to me
you're back there again

Monday, May 28, 2007

For My Suaku Girlfriend

i'm doing this for al. i cannot believe she's not heard snow patrol's chasing cars.

it's so uber emo... how can you totally miss this song off your radar girl?!


okay you may slit your wrist now... heh!

The Doctor Is In... To Play!

i cannot believe i actually went to 'play' for the first time on saturday night. oh well, that was because louis flew in for the weekend and perhaps it'll be a good excuse to hang out... plus alex and darius could sign us in.

and kwun ho caught me in 'play' while i was trying to act cool although the searing heat and humidity was making me look totally uncool... i was perspiring although all i did was to stand at the bar counter, looking all too lost.

kwun ho: "oh my gawd... wot's wrong with you, first the gym, and now the clubs? what's next? circuit parties?"

kwun ho you ho!

but all and all, never mind 'play'. don't like it at all. at least it was good to be able to hang out with louis this weekend.


buh-bye and catch you again louis... taipei, chicago, vancouver, wherever, sometime, somewhere!

note: i was aghast when i saw my own face in the picture above... i just don't get it, i lost 4kg since the may day holiday and my face is still fat? it's folding everywhere... like the michelin man! arghhh!

Thursday, May 24, 2007

All White, Fluffy & Ginormous

another posting on clouds! shot these amazing massive fluffy cloud formations while i was walking out to lunch with ian. i was totally bowled over! my trusty nokia n80 caught all these shots.








and this is one massive huge ass formation... and it looked extremely near right above your head when you stand under it


and that's harry pothead on a game of quidditch... is that how you spell it? only managed to painfully complete one chapter before i decided it was way too pedestrian... like the da vinci code

but yeah... awesome clouds... nice

The Morning Coronation Of Jordin Sparks


hey jordin girl
i got home last night
and i skipped boxercise class
just to watch you belt it out in the finals
when you sang
you made my tasteless zero carbo dinner meal
a joy to chew on
when you sang
you teared
and i teared on my couch in the living room too
you sparkled
but i was afraid for you
that teenyboppers all across america
who have no inkling of a clue what a singing competition means
will instead vote
for the one who kept beat-boxing
for it irritates the hell out of me
whenever i hear stunted and contorted staccatos
infused into one of jon bon jovi's sacred classic
that's music assasination
but this morning at 10am singapore time
you were enthroned
as the american idol
i can rest now


and you
yes you
you who kept flogging the dead horse with your tiresome beat-box
your can take a back seat now
you got canned

Wednesday, May 23, 2007

Greetings For The Cheebs


HAPPY 32nd BIRTHDAY LICHELLE!!!


XOXOX
from all of us here in singapore


Monday, May 21, 2007

Shuji Goes To Little India


with shuji in town for the weekend from tokyo, i thought it'd be good to at least show him little india while alex went for his uhmmm... singing lesson.

like any travels of all sorts, a gastronomical introduction to the the locale culinary experience is a must.


this tokyo boy sure can eat lots of curry and naan!


shuji had a nagging suspicion that something pot-bellied, cute, benevolent and has a long thick trunk was creeping up from behind...


inner court of the hindu temple, revealing the door ways into the inner sanctum... gorgeous artistry! when i have lots of money, i want my home to look as gorgeous as that!


he did try for the position of guardsman at the temple but they told him the doorway was just to ginormous for him...


girls... they just automatically fleet towards all that is shiny and glittery and glitzy and gold...


i tried to convince shuji it was considered auspicious to run around garlands of flowers while singing and dancing but he decided to stay put and posed for a shot instead... chuckle!

hell! the singapore tourism board had better take notice of a job well done here!

Sunday, May 20, 2007

Bomb Of A Faux Pas

there are several situations which makes me wanna slap people's faces, or sometimes to just laugh at them silly till i drop dead.

and so, there i was today at noon, queuing up at the cashier in cold storage in the village. behind me in the same queue was a lady talking real loud on her mobile as if she's the village voice transmitter, with an obviously fake american accent:

"yeah i just got back from europe... uh huh... oh yeah... it was nice... yeah i did lots of shopping, i am so tired... yeah i am gonna take another holiday soon... i'm going to MALEBOMB (melbourne) next..."


at that point in time, i wanted to race to the cutlery section and slit my throat with a paring knife and drop dead right away before i am accused of being rude for laughing my head off at someone...

Thursday, May 17, 2007

My Poor Melinda


melinda got booted out
i am devastated
deluged
mowed over
distressed
rocked over
shattered
upset
confuted
confounded

no one else in this season could even stand paragon next to you
no one
no one at all

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Please Don't Eat Me

over dinner at sushi tei in the village with felicia, we were seated facing a glass aquarium full of live lobsters.


people generally ask themselves this whenever they sit right in front something still alive which potentially may end up on their plate five minutes later:

"can i really eat something i saw that was alive a couple of minutes ago?"

but for these crustacean dudes in the aquarium in there looking out at us diners, one perennial questions may be on their mind:

"hookay guys... who's next? bob? joe? fred? or... could it be me?"

ignorance is truly bliss if animals like these dudes don't actually have to think or don't have the ability to think.


so i'd rather have my food served straight from the kitchen where i don't get to witness their last moments being alive before they end up as my dinner...

Monday, May 14, 2007

Here We Are


we're family, in our own ways
the laughters
the jokes
the anecdotes of our youths
the tempers
the tears
the banters
the witty come-backs
the flares
the long walks
the sumptuous meals
the simple meals
the everything that criss-crossed our lives
we treasure it all in our hearts
till our dying days


so that our children and our children's children
will know someday
that this family we form
did live our lives
and did share our lives
unconditionally amongst us all
because we're a family of friends

note: pictures were shot from last sunday's morning stroll at the Botanical Gardens; with Felicia and her two boys; Seto, Dora & David.

Sunday, May 13, 2007

A Letter To Mommy

Hi Mom,

It's Mothers' Day today... well, at least there's half an hour more to go before the day wraps up. I know you're not getting anything from me today; no flowers, no greeting card, no gifts, no day-off-household chores, no big hugs, no "I'll-do-grocery-shopping-for-you-today" and what-nots. It's been like that for the past seven years huh?

But if there's anything I could give you, it's always two things; without fail.

I say a little prayer for you every other day. And I give you the assurance that I am doing fine despite adversities that may or have come in my way (thank God for my friends and those whom I hold dear in the deep recesses of my heart who have been there for me all these while).

Happy Mothers' Day to you mom. Rest in peace. Love you lots.

*sniff*

xoxox,
Your Son

Friday, May 11, 2007

Beautiful Morning Downpour

i only love it when it rains
especially when i get out of bed in the morning
and your room is darker than the usual irritating days of sunshine morning
and you draw the curtains open
to reveal the full might of dark clouds
pouring its liquid content down to earth
and traffic nervously mitigate its way along the road
under the pouring dark gloomy sky

it makes my morning
it makes my day
i adore mornings such as this
i adore days such as this
i adore the day today
it's beautiful
it portends a good day for me


8.50am: on my way to the ministry of foreign affairs via holland road, one of the most beautiful rainy morning i've ever had today

Monday, May 07, 2007

Wanting More

knock off work on time.
go home.
pan-fry some rosemary lamb sausages.
steam a bunch of broccolis and baby carrots.
watch Rome on HBO.
go to bed.

an initial plan that was.
the plan that did not come through.

knocked off work on time.
went home.
frantically packed my gym bag.
boarded bus 7 to orchard road.
just in time for boxercise class.
stamina came back on track.
the endorphin high satiated my evening.
got home at 9.
pan fried some rosemary lamb sausages.
steamed a bunch of broccolis and baby carrots.
TV dinner with Rome on HBO.
i'm ready to go to bed.

this is good.
feeling uneasy about potentially missing a work-out session is good.
it's good to be back and wanting more.

Sunday, May 06, 2007

A Weekend Of All Sorts

this weekend has gotta be the most filled up saturday-sunday weekend!

did my very first back-breaking boxercise class after 3 years of absentia. fofoa the samoan boxercise instructor took a dig at me when he saw me outside the studio before the class began.

fofoa: so dean, you're back aye?

me: yeap... after 3 years

fofoa: yeah i can see that, it looks like you have a 3 kilometres worth of waist happening there...

me: bastard...

fofoa: that's me alright... now get your arse back to your spot, we've some serious cardio for you to pick up all over again! move! move! move!

i survived the class, even more determined than ever to go for more boxercise classes (gees, i wanna get addicted to boxercise all over again!)

then it was late lunch and tea with dora, felicia and david at foster's in the village.




and since i'm counting calories in my 'must lose weight' hyperdrive effort, i ordered the nicoise salad - i.e. tuna, and lotsa raw yucky green leaves


while david was all eased up ordering real food from the menu... although the man is gonna run several marathons coming up this year... fit people have it good all the time... blaaah!


and the rest of them did partake unto scones and cakes while i watched them at it...


so very within my reach... so very very within my reach... but oh well, i'm not the one getting fat anyway, so screw the scones and cakes!

later in the evening, mr mark chan who's back from shanghai for his coming performance in the upcoming singapore arts festival had me over for a tete-a-tete at his place...


over...


cuban cigars and strong java... heaven!

while mark was on seventh heaven on cuban cigars and coffee...


i was on the 80th heaven...


nice...

after that, wei came and picked me up to go to zouk's wine bar for...


lynda's sweet 16 birthday party!!!

happy birthday girlfriend!!!


after several pints of guinness draught later, it is evident that alcohol proves to be an effective skin refresher compared to botox.

barely 1am, the sleepy bug got me and we went home to slumberland...

we woke up the next morning and wei's first words in bed were, "i'm hungry"

"ditto"
, said i.

we drove to adam road hawker centre at 9am...


where i ordered soto ayam (very healthy wor!)


and wei appeared blissed tucking into mee rebus

we hit the gym later in the afternoon after a long siesta. as i walked out of the gym after working out, a 'once-a-month' sight on orchard road greeted me...


the march past along orchard road for the changing of guards at the presidential istana


men in fitted uniforms... drool...

after saying goodbye to wei, i took a walk along orchard road to borders bookstore where i wanted to get lynda her birthday present and to meet alex for dinner.


street buskers; they call themselves 'samba masala'. pretty neat percussion beats they drummed up... although they aren't as funky as wicked aura batucada. perhaps samba masala needs the to-drool-for hunks factor like wicked aura batucada has.

like a moth to a flame, i felt the strong pull of something very luxe...


chanel had revamped their store's facade... uber nice!


and tang's store glitzy proclamation on turning 75 this year


after dinner, alex and i rounded up the evening with shopping! i so needed retail therapy big time considering depressing manic monday is looming.


foowah! you damn hemsem boy wor!!!

monday coming liao... nabey...

Friday, May 04, 2007

Non Sequitur - Of Prejudices & Bigotry

is this hate speech or plain comical piece of low-cerebral expression?

you guys decide. i think the remnants of Nazi Germany's cronies from the Third Reich is still very much around... coming from my alma mater *scoff*

May 4, 2007
Decriminalising homosexual acts would be an error
By Yvonne C. L. Lee, For The Straits Times

Readers of The Straits Times have written in to question the rationale for the criminalisation of homosexual acts. It is imperative that we understand the legal and broader social implications, and that Parliament, in the forthcoming debate on the Penal Code reform, carefully considers these implications.

The Home Affairs Ministry has indicated that Section 377A of the Penal Code (S377A) will be retained. S377A prohibits the commission of gross indecency by one male person with another male person. Opinions have been expressed that S377A may be unconstitutional because it discriminates against homosexuals by criminalising homosexual sex and not oral and anal sex committed by heterosexuals or lesbians.

This is an over-simplistic reading of the equality clause.

Context

Firstly, the legal meaning of equality must be understood within its social context. Equality is not an absolute value. Extreme applications of equality impair community interests and violate the rights of others. Furthermore, the Constitution does not prohibit all forms of discrimination.

Like cases must be treated alike, but Parliament may enact measures which differentiate between different groups. The courts hold that such measures must satisfy two tests to be constitutionally valid: Firstly, the classification must have a rational basis. Secondly, the law must serve a legitimate purpose which is reasonably related to the basis for the classification.

Each differentiating legal measure serves a social objective. For example, a married individual with four children enjoys higher tax relief than one without children. The public good is to encourage married couples to have more babies.

To view the issue of S377A exclusively as a matter of equality omits the broader context -- that rights can clash with other rights and community values.

When they do, Parliament may pass laws which reflect the public good in preference over the rights of the individual or groups.

Any argument to decriminalise homosexual sex must consider the harmful social consequences. For example, would affirming homosexual sexual practices serve the common good? It is a known medical fact that homosexual intercourse or sodomy is an inherently unhealthy act that carries higher risks of a number of sexually transmitted infections. The law should not facilitate acts which threaten public health.

Moreover, any reform to the Penal Code must preserve fundamental values which serve the public good, instead of abstract notions of equality or fashion.

Broader agenda

Recent developments in foreign jurisdictions like Canada, Sweden, the United Kingdom and the United States indicate that the move to decriminalise homosexual sex is the first step in a broader homosexual rights agenda to transform social morality:

If S377A is repealed, homosexual sex is legitimised, transformed from a crime into an 'alternative lifestyle'.

The minimum age for sodomy must then be specified. This opens the door for homosexual lobbyists to pursue the next step of equalising the age of consent for homosexuals and heterosexuals. The current age of consent for homosexual sex in countries which have decriminalised sodomy ranges from 13 to 18, covering Singapore males from Secondary 1 to junior college.

The third step is re-conceptualising homosexuality as a civil right in the name of equality. As an 'alternative lifestyle', homosexual lobbyists will seek for this to be endorsed and 'mainstreamed' into society (for example, arts, education, entertainment and media), beyond the privacy of the bedroom. The current view that 'sexual orientation' should not be a basis for discrimination is problematic. 'Sexual orientation' is a vague term covering a range of sexual expressions, including paedophilia and bestiality. Also, the assertion that one is 'born gay' is scientifically unproven.

An active homosexual agenda has engendered clashes with fundamental liberties such as free speech and religious liberty. Christian pastors have been criminally prosecuted for sermons declaring that homosexuality is a sin, a view also held by Muslims and many non-religious people who consider homosexuality unnatural and morally repugnant. Attempts have been made to extend 'hate speech' laws to the Bible and Quran.

People who oppose the homosexual agenda are branded as intolerant, bigoted, homophobes, or hateful towards homosexuals who are merely 'different'. This does not promote free speech but seeks to censor it. If this intolerance against religion is imported into multiracial and multireligious Singapore, this will breed social divisiveness.

The final step involves attempts to redefine 'marriage', the fundamental institution and bedrock of many civilisations. The redefinition is a radical reconstruction of 'marriage' - no longer a union between man and woman but includes 'same-sex marriage'. Homosexuals must then be allowed to marry someone of the same sex and be given the benefits of marriage such as tax benefits, adoption of children and/or state-funded access to alternative 'reproduction' methods.

The argument that decriminalising homosexual sex will not cause a change in moral attitudes is erroneous. It has been suggested that even after adultery was decriminalised, it remained morally reprehensible. So too, decriminalising homosexual sex will not cause a shift in moral attitudes.

While the law embodies a moral judgment, it is not always prudent for the law to punish all immoral behaviour. However, to draw an analogy between adulterers and homosexuals is fallacious. Adulterers do not seek societal approval, but certain homosexual activists campaign to alter the public mindset and to gain legal and social endorsement of the gay lifestyle.

The fact is, under the proposed Penal Code reform, homosexuals wishing to lead private lives may do so, provided they do not foist their homosexual acts on the public.

S377A is a legitimate statement of the values of our society. In constitutional terms, equality claims operate within a broader social context.

Homosexuality is offensive to the majority of citizens. Allowing an aggressive homosexual rights agenda to dictate law reform ignores the nature of Singapore's multireligious, multiracial community. Such an agenda would be divisive. Therefore, the attention given to fundamental moral values of the majority of citizens by retaining S377A in its entirety strikes the right balance.

The writer is an assistant professor who teaches company law and constitutional law at the Faculty of Law, National University of Singapore. The opinions expressed are the author's own.

Wednesday, May 02, 2007

Oh Sam, Thou Art Kind To Re-Live Mine Waning Memory

i almost forgot what it was like to banter with sam years ago when i was a gayfornia member years ago. we'd use to msn each other before hitting the gym in the evening after work when i was working in the filter group as a researcher.

today, sam re-lived those moments with me on msn:

Emma Fruity Loops says:
SO WHEN U GO GYM?!

pornstar says:
AH TONITE!!!

Emma Fruity Loops says:
AH FANTASTICO

pornstar says:
i make my comeback tonite!!!

Emma Fruity Loops says:
I SHALL GATHER THE GIRLS

pornstar says:
altho i may walk in looking like an oversized whale, i want to change all that 6 months down the road

pornstar says:
ah!!! then can have neener with u girls leh!

Emma Fruity Loops says:
i shall have the macho marys carry you down the aisle in your kaftan

pornstar says:
i am sick n tired of not being able to fit into my business shirts and pants without looking like i'm wearing spandex with all my fats spilling out

pornstar says:
yes yes!!!

pornstar says:
have elephants to trump my arrival

Emma Fruity Loops says:
then nubile sinewy twinky things will present to you your first myoplex cocktail as you rest serenely on the bench press

Emma Fruity Loops says:
after which you may take your pick on who shall be your welcome back gym buddy

pornstar says:
yes yes!!! and let peacocks wander around me to herald my homecoming

pornstar says:
so as long as it's not c**l

pornstar says:
EEEEEEEEEEEW

Emma Fruity Loops says:
would be 1. Steroid boy with huge deltoids and zits the size of m&ms

pornstar says:
pass

pornstar says:
next

Emma Fruity Loops says:
or 2. fey twinky boy in satin shorts

pornstar says:
i'll consider, next

Emma Fruity Loops says:
uhm thats all in the gym la the rest are your sisters

Emma Fruity Loops says:
now practise! u must have forgotten it all

Emma Fruity Loops says:
say," SISTER!"

pornstar says:
in my sisters i lay my trust

Emma Fruity Loops says:
AIR KISS

pornstar says:
seeistera

Emma Fruity Loops says:
no snapping of butts with wet towel!

pornstar says:
oh my... i totally forgot how to do my magnificato air kiss in the gym to my frens

Emma Fruity Loops says:
now tone your droppy man's breasts while u ogle at tight butts

pornstar says:
did i used to put a pink feather boa ard my neck when i used to work out in gayfornia back then? i cannot recall

pornstar says:
or was i wearing a sarong with tassles?

Emma Fruity Loops says:
ah u just go SISTER...MUACK MUACK...and do a bicep flex

pornstar says:
6 months time honey, 6 months time... i must make myself a gym addict all over again like i was years ago lor

Emma Fruity Loops says:
i think it was a pink feather hermes towel....!

pornstar says:
ah! thank u!

pornstar says:
u recalled my memory big time!

Emma Fruity Loops says:
i mean a satin hermes scarf with pink flamingo feather detail

Emma Fruity Loops says:
AH THE STEAM ROOM AWAITS YOUR PRESENCE!

pornstar says:
ah yeshhh! the Hermes towel!!! how can i forget? i a sure it's somewhere in my closet...or is that so passe now?

pornstar says:
i do have my Givenchy towelette tho

pornstar says:
oh hell, i'll stick to run off the mill Hardy Amies towels then

pornstar says:
ahhhhhhhh! the steam room! i almost forgot abt it's most wunderbar existence!

Emma Fruity Loops says:
ah yes the possbilties

Emma Fruity Loops says:
u can soften all that hair in the steam room for easy removable later

Emma Fruity Loops says:
and u can shave your legs

Emma Fruity Loops says:
and tie your hair in a turban!

pornstar says:
i shall walk in and sprinkle essential oil all over the steam room to rid it off all dirt and carnal sins that may have taken place in all 3 years of my absence from the gym

Emma Fruity Loops says:
THEN U DONT HAVE TO MESS UP YOUR BATHROOM!

pornstar says:
oh Sam darling sister of my universe next to Grego, what do i do without u recalling my memory when i go back to Gayfornia tonite

Emma Fruity Loops says:
ah! yes also i think the stink of a 10000 trolls must have accumulated so bring extra strength essential lavander oil...OR MR MUSCLE!

Emma Fruity Loops says:
and remember not to talk to.....

Emma Fruity Loops says:
MISS SHEN ZHEN!

Emma Fruity Loops says:
besides he will either be in his jeans or ugly lycra pants

pornstar says:
OHHHHHH MR MUSCLE!!!!!!!! it's the bestest thing ever, dirt n grime dissolving in the bathroom, just spray and leave it for 10 mins, and simply rinse with water and be blinded by the shine!

pornstar says:
EEEEEEEEKS!

pornstar says:
MISS SHEN ZHEN!!! horrors!!!! still in that extremely short denim shorts ah???

Emma Fruity Loops says:
ah or u spray mr muscle at the trolls so they will dissolve away screaming in 10 mins!

pornstar says:
oh i will, i just bought refill in cold storage last night

Emma Fruity Loops says:
and his glossy side combed hair that attracts moths to a flame

pornstar says:
that's a trap i tell u

pornstar says:
a dangereuse trap!

Emma Fruity Loops says:
ah! the brethren will be uber please to see you

Emma Fruity Loops says:
(i give u one week only before u sian)

Emma Fruity Loops says:
and complain abt myoplex give u lau sai

Emma Fruity Loops says:
and how crowded it is

Emma Fruity Loops says:
and smelly

pornstar says:
oh i hope so too, and to be able to see our brethren and the intelligentsia all over again... i relish that thought

Emma Fruity Loops says:
and why so many people where adidas and not stella mcarthney

Emma Fruity Loops says:
i mean wear

Emma Fruity Loops says:
and then...why everyone wear tiny satin shots and strut around like quails

pornstar says:
oh well Sam, when u look into ur wardrobe, and u see tonnes of tank tops gone to waste just because u have piled on 20 kg since i last went to the gym 3 yrs ago... that is motivation enuff to go back to the grind all over again

pornstar says:
(ok i think i shld discard my red satin muay thai kickboxing shorts lor)

Emma Fruity Loops says:
as brian said its for health la

pornstar says:
yes yes

pornstar says:
true

pornstar says:
truly said

pornstar says:
i will see u all tonite sweethearts

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

Time To Bring Sexy Back!

today is the first of the many past public holidays (including saturdays and sundays) that i actually woke up real late... 1030am! and that was a result of dvd marathon at home last night.

and i told myself to do myself a favour from now onwards upon waking up: bring sexy back!

you'll know what i mean as this blog entry progresses.

for a start, i thought why not have a healthy meal for lunch. so i called alex for lunch at paragon's caffe beviamo. after a serving of ciabatta, tuna and scrambled egg, that felt good.

darius came along and joined us for coffee...


awww so cute lah these two!

after which... i did myself the biggest favour this year...


YES! i am back with gayfornia gym after a super long hiatus!

upon signing the agreement contract, i declared my intention of returning to the gym to some of my closest friends via sms. and the responses have been highly encouraging:

kennedy: "go away! LOL" (that was kennedy's version of encouragement in his own warped endearing way)

lynda: "yes! bring sexy back baby!"

russel: "good, so will see you more of you at (the) gym. sean and i goes go on monday and thursday"

sam: "oh my oh my. welcome home"

brian: "most importantly for health la"

dora: "well done! you go girl! i'm gonna try out spin class soon. we both be works-in-progress lah"

yeah... a work-in-progress i shall be indeed, back to the trappings all gym rats are in right now, like i was in one years ago. oh hell, i'm doing this for myself anyway, doing myself a favour.

We'll Catch You Again Lichelle!


lichelle left singapore for the philippines before she moves to dubai for work. on 30th april 2007, she walked into the terminal 2 departure hall of changi airport at 8.20am for the 9am flight to davao city.

it was way much easier this time round saying goodbye to her (unlike the last time round when she left for barcelona where i was tearing non stop all the way home in dora's car). maybe it's because dubai is nearer to singapore and flying there costs a thousand bucks cheaper.

i went straight to a meeting with my client in tampines after lichelle's departure and soon felt the flu was coming down on me. nalini sent me back home right after the meeting. it felt weird stepping back into the apartment after lichelle had left somehow. but i am so so so glad to see one of my favourite girls again.

we'll see you soon girl. we will.

Wishing Everyday's A Sunday

we made the best out of the whole of sunday before lichelle flew off the next day. we re-lived sunday brunch get-together at caffe beviamo.


the cheebs and me


dora and david


yummers!

sensing our presence around the vicinity, the hediard food boutique did a total lock down their prized chocolates and truffles vault...


... but we managed to visually pry into the vault

and we walked...



down to orchard road...



where we stuffed our faces with gelato from haato! woohoo!


jugs of gelatos... i mean, cups of gelatos!

lichelle and i did some shopping along orchard road, and adjourned to little india to get some groceries for her farewell dinner at my place.

in the afternoon, the whole gang descended upon the village...


...to give me instructions how to cut veges


the QC and kitchen inspection team comprising felicia and seto


so far so good... cooking underway...


while the rest continued lounging around...

and voila! dinner is served!



chicken kurma, potatooos, lady's fingers, blanced vege in oyster sauce...

and the rest immediately assembled around the dinner table for chow time...


after everyone had left, lichelle and i cleaned the place up... and we sat down in the living room on the last minutes of the remaining sunday night...


...over a bowl of freshly cut kiwis